Divorce And Child Custody Basics

Divorce is never easy, especially when children are involved. At Lai & Turner Law Firm PLLC, we guide clients through the legal process while helping protect their parental rights. If you’re looking for an Oklahoma City, OK divorce lawyer, it’s important to work with someone who understands how custody laws apply to your situation. We have over six years of experience successfully helping Oklahomans with their family law needs and 100s of five star reviews. We have 24/7 live answering so that you never have to feel alone during your divorce or other family law matter.

Legal And Physical Custody

Custody has two parts: legal and physical. Legal custody means the right to make important decisions for the child, like those about health care, education, or religion. Physical custody refers to where the child lives most of the time.

In many cases, parents share legal custody even if one has primary physical custody. In other situations, one parent may be granted sole custody. Courts decide based on what’s in the best interest of the child.

How Courts Make Custody Decisions

When deciding custody, Oklahoma courts look at factors like each parent’s relationship with the child, ability to provide a safe home, and the child’s emotional and physical needs. In some cases, the child’s preference is considered, especially if they are old enough to express a clear and reasonable opinion.

Both parents have equal rights—there is no legal preference given to either the mother or father. The court looks at facts, not assumptions.

Types Of Custody Arrangements

There are several common custody setups. Some families follow a joint custody model, where both parents share legal responsibilities and time with the child. In other cases, one parent may have primary custody while the other has a regular visitation schedule.

We work with clients to create custody agreements that fit their families and meet legal requirements. When both parents agree on a plan, the process tends to go more smoothly, and children often adapt better.

What Happens In Court

If parents cannot agree on custody, the court will make the decision. This usually involves a hearing where both sides present evidence, including documents and testimony. A guardian ad litem may be appointed to represent the child’s interests. A judge may ask to interview a child if the child is mature enough to go through this process. Typically the courts consider children age 12 and older as mature enough to participate in decision making about their custody arrangements but individual cases will vary. While we support cooperation whenever possible, we are ready to go to court when needed. Our focus remains on protecting our clients’ rights and the well-being of their children.

Talk To Our Family Law Team

At Lai & Turner Law Firm PLLC, we provide clear, practical support during divorce, custody matters, and other family law needs. Our team is here to handle paperwork, answer questions, and represent your interests throughout the process.

If you’re facing divorce or a custody issue, contact Lai & Turner Law Firm PLLC today. We’re here to help you move forward with a legal plan that protects what matters most, your child’s well-being.